11 fast and simple steps to have a stranger take a photograph of you with professional quality.

Ok, so you don’t have a tripod, nor do you have a nifty remote controller to snap your own photos. You are alone traveling and you need someone to snap your photo because the ten second timer works but there isn’t really a good place to set it up at. And if you don’t have a professional photographer following you around either, bummer. Simple you say, have someone take it for you, but you’re tired of the people that just can’t capture the moment.  You know that time when you asked Mr. or Miss X nicely to take your photograph standing in front of this tree or that monument? You know the person that takes a photo of more ground or more sky than anything else, the one that clips off peoples feet or  takes off the top of heads, the time someone didn’t position the frame well, on and  on and so forth. Want someone to  know how to take a photo just the way you would like it? Let’s face it, you know what I am talking about if you have done any extent of travelling alone.

I have set up some simple steps for you to say to someone to get everything you wanted in that one photograph. Start off by doing the research. What do you want, where do you want the photo taken, and who do you think could take it for you.

On one of my recent facebook posts a friend from back home asked “Drew how do you get people to take such good photos of you?” I told him that I hired a Gnome that I carry around in my pocket.” laughs to him self… all kidding aside you simple just ask someone, and then show them how youd like the photo to be taken. Ok but really how?

Her’es the plug. “Excuse me sir/mam would you like me to take a photo of you and your friend/XYZ?” If they say yes then do it. If they say no then say, “Well I was curious can you please take my photo?” Sure, no problem. And we have a photographer.

Now to really get what you want, you need to take it a few steps further, or you’ll just have a point and click shooter.

Here are 11 quick and easy steps to ensure that your photograph will come out as good as you thought it would be when someone else takes it with your camera.

  1. Stand in the spot where you imagine the photographer to be.
  2. Look through your own camera to see what it is you want captured, if you don’t know how will they?
  3. Once you know what you want and you have the location set picture what you want in and what you want OUT of the frame.
  4. Ask someone, preferably someone who you personally would think to be digital camera literate. Try not to discriminate.
  5. Greeting sir/mam can you please take my photo. (Be polite.)
  6. Once they agree show them through your view finder or screen where you will stand, and what you want them to capture. Case in point I would like you to get the entire building and me, from this location (point at the ground) you will be able to get the entire building and me in one frame. You will not need to zoom. (Remind them many will ask to zoom.)
  7. Once you hand the camera to them, ask them to hold it with two hands as it is more sturdy- ( No one likes a blurry photo because they couldn’t put down their coffee cup.)
  8. Now that the coffee cup is down, they have two hands on the camera ( make sure they don’t run away) let them know it is ok if you take more than one photograph maybe take a couple. One horizontal and one vertical, but preferably tell them one, because you already scoped out the work and like the vertical idea. Don’t make it hard on them.
  9. Ok, now show them what you want “hold it like this, and you push this button to capture the photograph”. Many people will ask others to take their photograph and run to the spot,  but what if that person really doesn’t know where the buttons are. Just make it easy on them show them. “You can push this silver button once and it will click for the photograph.”
  10. This on is funny but ask them to count 1,2,3 or 3,2,1 in any language sometimes you can be standing for longer than you want with a smile, Waiting.Waiting.Waiting. All while they are confused. If this happens to turn out bad, rinse and repeat, reconsider your options and get a second shooter.
  11. And last smile and say thank you. This should all take about 30 seconds once you master what to say. Go stand in the frame already! Enjoy having photos taken the way you want by other people on your camera. Tell them they did great. “Wow you are a good photographer.” Then to top it all off  if you have time, which you should for someone else, ask them. Sir/ Mam would you like me to take a photo of you and XYZ on your camera? It goes a long way. 

Ok folks, this should just about do it. I hope you have a chance to try all this out and don’t worry it seems like a lot to do but really It only takes about half a minute and it is worth every second when you end up with a good framed photograph. Remember to be polite and ask nicely, then say thanks!

Another Backpacker experience, the Luang Prabang Lao New Year, other known as Songkran or Sabaidee Pi Mai Lao!

 

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Laos traditional parade costumes.

Lao New Year, called Songkran or Pii Mai is happening right now. I left Thailand hoping to catch some action over in Laos but I had no idea what an experience I was in for. Very glad that I made the trip, and now marks the third new years that I have celebrated in 4 months. Interesting enough, the first was in Gokarna,India on the white sand beaches, the second was Chinese New Year in China Town Bangkok, Thailand, and now the third and most exciting I must add Luang Prabang, Laos.

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A huge crowd amasses for the New Years Parade Luang Prabang, laos

When is New Years?
From my experience here in Luang Prabang, Laos. I have been told that the official festival lasts for three days from April 13 to April 15. Although in Luang Prabang the people here are holding celebrations all week.  I was told that the first day of celebration is the last day of the old year like new years eve in the west. Then the second day of the festival is like New Years day, but here it is the in between, the purgatory “The day of no days”. I was told this is a day that falls in neither the old year or the new year but it is still a party day. Then the last day of the festivities and celebrations kicks off the start of the new year.

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Beautiful people, Laos New Years parade, Luang Prabang.

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New Years Prayers and Reflection on life.

I arrived at the start of the pre party, or so I thought. I wasn’t one hour off the boat and not 10 minutes into my first tuk tuk ride into the heart of the city before I got nailed with a bucket of water from some family. Every 3 meters the asphalt was soaked from tossing water.

Before I even had reached a guest house I was pretty wet and had to dodge, bob and weave through back alleyways and side streets.. From this point on I knew I needed to cover my camera, my laptop and whatever else I had but was intrigued to capture some moments of this festivity non the less.

Worshiping and reflecting.
As much of the festivities are rolled out, the New Year is also a time to visit the temples for worshiping.

Flowers and Gardens.
Small relics, homes, temples and Buddha images are adorned with flowers; Flowers are bought and sold many shops and street vendors sell them to bring to the monks at the Wats, Temples grounds  and the riverbanks for worship. Like celebrating your own religious holiday I feel that everyone follows the tradition but many  may do it a little different but maintaining  key values and principles.

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A woman give thanks, in prayer. Flowers and arrangement are made for the New Year celebration.

Bird cages, live fish and turtles oh my.
Another way for people to receive well wishes in the new year is to set animals free. Small little bird cages made of wicker are made to hold tiny birds for purchase and are sold. fish are bought in the markets not for eating but to be released into the rivers and lakes some in the salt water oceans and I even saw some turtles.

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Small Bird cages and floral arrangements can be found all over.

What is up with the water?  Why is everyone throwing water on each other?
Originally the water is perfumed with flora or flowers and is dripped or poured on monks and elders as a sign of respect, well wishes and prosperity in the new year.

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Monks gently being splashed with water. praises from the new year.

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Lao New Year: A man gently pours water on an elderly man, as a sign of respect and well wishes for the new year.

Later it has evolved into a festival of dosing friends and family, and it now has become common to see almost every street corner shop sitting outside with buckets of water and hoses splashing and tossing water on passing cars, motorbikes and people. I of course fell victim, but enjoyed every minute of it.

Here are some shots from the past three days in Luang Prabang, Lao New Years local and tourist hub locations.

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A father pours water on his son, during the second day festivities of Laos New Years. Luang Prabang, Laos

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A few monks stand watching from a distance the water festivities going on across the street. Luang Prabang, Laos

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Sometime colors are added to the water like the orange seen in this one to replicate the flora added for good luck. Each toss, is a well wish in the new year.

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Nailed, with a bucket of water.

Why are their colors of powder being thrown too?
The powders, creams, colors, and dies all are in good fun. From my questioning a few locals they seemed to all have the same response, “same same but different”. I think they were recalling the color is a new age way of throwing flowers mixed in water. I really didn’t get an informative answer, nor did I really care. There were all sorts of colors being added, white flour, or powder, shaving cream and various others rich color additives are added to the water or used to smear on people. My white beefy T shirt will never be the same again.

Remember it’s all in good health but don’t drink the water..
 When a Laotian is throwing a bucket of water on you, even though you are already soaks and have had enough, enjoy it, as it is their tradition and it’s all in good fun. Do not forget you traveled to their country buddy, live it up. It’s wishing you good health and fortune, so soak it up. Literally.

Three Laotion monks and an American traveler chilling on a hot summer day.

Sometimes I wonder how lucky I am not only to travel this world but to meet the people that I do. Then I remember that it was a choice I made, I could be at a desk somewhere looking at my screensaver just day dreaming like I was back in 2009.

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The elder monk directly to my left  asked me to come teach the other monks basic English. Luang Prabang, Laos

Today I woke up to my daily ritual then sat contemplating what community service work I would do in Laos as I am on a quest to volunteer in each country that I visit. I suddenly became overwhelmed with the sensations.  I suddenly became frustrated and somewhat upset with myself. I questioned “What am I doing here? Why does it matter?”

Then I stopped, put down the pen and paper, took my camera and headed out the door in a frustrated yet wanderlust bolt. Where to, I had no idea.

I explored a little outside the main tourist hot spots in Luang Prabang, venturing deeper into the local scenic route, then found myself passing by a warn down yet beautiful white, maroon, and golden Wat (temple).

I decided to venture into the premises to say a few prayers and meditate for a short sit. I don’t really have a particular religion but I do believe that there is something out there far greater than just me, and that I give great respect to. So I said some things for the people around the world, sending out my best meta. Then for my cousin and his wife who are going through a tough pregnancy who were rushed to the hospital last night. I gave thanks to everything that I have in life and the people I have connected with. I lit a few candles and just listened to my heart beat. I then felt better and left the temple, walking around the grounds in peace.

This is when I met a few monks resting in the shade under an old warn down building. Feeling calm and relaxed, I said my greetings “sabai di” (“hello-good health”) and pressed my palms together in a prayer gesture known as a “nop”). They reciprocated with smiles “sabai di”.

There were a few younger monks passing and coming interested in the big white foreigner, as for two of them spoke decent English enough to hold basic conversation with me.  After standing a little I sat with them on the old wooden bench shown in the photograph above. I spent a couple hours talking with these monk about their lives and the city. They in turn asked me about my travels. Only an handful of them speak English out of thirty monks at this temple some passing and interested to see what was going on with us. The elder monk said they are eager to learn and asked if I could come back to the temple and teach basic English classes. I thought about what I was doing, could I thought? I was smiling and thinking this has got to be one of those moments, a sign as I flashed back to this morning when I had been contemplating my community service/ volunteering initiative for Laos. I said we could work something out.

Thrilled, the elder monk (I forgot how to pronounce/ spell his name) asked if I could come back and teach them classes in English conversation tomorrow already. I laughed, and said how long do you want me to stay? He told me however long you have sir. I told them I would arrange my schedule to see what I can do.

How could I turn him down? This was a sign if there were any signs floating around from my troubled mind this morning. I wasn’t planning on staying in Luang Prabang longer than a couple days, however to teach English at a temple in Laos might be more rewarding than any sight seeing experience.

Maybe I should warn them ahead of time that my grammar in writing is sub par. 

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The golden doors of the temple, Luang Prabang, Laos.

Boat down the Mekong River

The past two days have pretty much been spent on a boat floating slowly down the Mekong river from Thailand to Laos. They say “slow boat” but really it isn’t too slow, if we hit something it would do some damage… Ha! But overall it wasn’t slow but it wasn’t fast. At some points we hit a few rapids that were pretty unpredictable and splashed a bit of water up into the boat of course giving everyone a laugh and an “ooooo and an ahhh” effect.

Overall the boats moved pretty quick, but in retrospect I guess over the course of two days it can be called a slow boat. And we parked half way through to spend the night in a little village that sold over priced food and overpriced accommodations. Supply and demand was the excuse I supposed. None the less the sleepy little village was a nice break from the boat, and made the trip complete as I was able to converse with my new Chinese friends over a hot meal and power outages.

Over the course of the two days on the river we passed through different villages. It was beautiful to see the landscape and the people. The bamboo huts and the men out on their skinny boats fishing. there was vast space between each village so it made a good mix for the adventure.

I am editing some notes that I had written about the course of the past three days. But I wanted to just say a few things the best part of travel is meeting people.

I will say that time and again. As much as I love being alone and out in the world traveling, when I meet some people that I find interesting it makes a world of a difference. This trip was one of those instances; I just met some amazing women from Argentina and a hand full of people from China and four folks from Germany on the boat. Over the course of two days I spent time with the Chinese people last night for a dinner, and tonight I met up with the guys from Germany and the Argentina girls. Our time together was short but I hope to stay connected to them some how or another. I feel throughout my journey over the past two years that this is the number one question I get asked. What is your favorite part of travel? My answer. Meeting the people.

All of our stories were unique and interesting, we had lots to share and learn from each other. All rewarding and interesting stories, I’d say in the big picture of life It was a fast education on a slow boat down the Mekong.

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Sandstone cliff. Mekong River. Laos

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local man on the mountain over looking the docked boats.

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Mekong River boat dock. laos